Over 2/3 of Oregonians
believe that same-sex couples
should have their relationships
legally recognized by the state.
Diane Wolter Educator and Mother
Keizer, Oregon
Diane Wolter defines equality as "everybody
being treated the same with
respect to human rights regardless
of their race, gender or sexual
preference."
As a proud mother, an educational resource, and an activist, Wolter has taken
on a whole host of roles in a concerted effort to challenge inequality. She founded
the Gay-Straight Alliance in Salem-Keizer six
years ago, which she says, "helps a lot of kids".
More recently, this past fall Wolter became President of the PFLAG chapter in
Salem. She teamed up with another PFLAG mother and for the past few years, the
duo have visited schools informing staff members
on equality issues and giving educators tools for acknowledging and supporting
their gay student population. A particular technique that is well-received among
educators is providing the time, space, and guidance to reflect on their own
experiences with regard to homosexuality and biases. Wolter and her co-facilitator
engage teachers in safe conversations surrounding how their personal beliefs
about homosexuality have or have not changed over the years.
Perhaps the greatest motivation driving Wolter's cause is the fact that her son
is gay. "I sort of had to drag him out of the closet at age 12," she
says. "It was the early to mid nineties and he experienced some discrimination." Wolter
went on to describe a familiar scene in which athletic and competitive school
boys tease their peers in gym class. These particular boys noticed that Wolter's
son was not a carbon-copy aggressor and began distributing labels and calling
him names like 'fairy'. This experience had a twofold effect at the time: it
further discouraged her son from coming out and it empowered Wolter to become
an active advocate for human rights and equality.
When asked about her hope for this world, Wolter took a thoughtful moment and
then simply said, "I want my son to have the same rights as my daughters.
I want him to have the right to marry, raise children, and share insurance with
a partner. That is what I want for him, what any mother would want for her son."